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Monday, June 22, 2020

PAYING ATTENTION TO THE RED FLAGS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

PAYING ATTENTION TO THE RED FLAGS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

If you're driving on a high way and you see the red flag, it means you should drive carefully or telling you that an accident just occurred and in order not to have yours added to it you need to drive slowly.

Yes, there are also red flags in relationships that tells to drive slowly because of the danger of marriage. Red flags actually points to a danger ahead which either tells to slow down or to go back.

This many times in relationship, people don't see because  love seem to have blinded their eyes and the truth is, true love doesn't blind, it keeps the eyes widely opened, to correct where necessary.

You need to pay attention to the red flags in your relationship, so that you won't have issues in your marriage. Please remember that red flags are indicators of a danger ahead and this many times in relationships  could tell you to quit the relationship because of the danger ahead of marriage.

FOUR(4) RED FLAGS YOU NEED TO PAY ATTENTION TO

You must understand that marriage don't change people, relationship is the reflection of what marriage will look like and many times people double what they do in their relationships in marriage.
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Having said the need to pay attention to the red flag in your relationship, there is need for you know the red flags you need to pay attention to, so that when you see any of them you'll ran away.

#1 when you partner is the stingy type.
Marriage won't make your stingy partner to suddenly become a cheerful give in marriage, if your partner is stingy now expect double of it in marriage.

#2 when your partner speak back stab you
Some guys are good at speaking well of you when you're there but they go ahead to speak ill against you at your back. When your partner do this, please expect that such don't speak well of you before their parents at your back.

#3 when your partner slaps you
When your partner slaps you in relationship and you call the first one a play, the second one you say he is rubbing your cheek and the third time you say he doesn't mean it, beware foolishness may be knocking on your door. This abuse will double in marriage, he may buy punching bag because of you.

#4 when your partner spend on luxuries than saving
People who spend on luxuries normally don't have time for savings, they always have something to show and that's why they hardly get help. A luxury partner in relationship will definitely want a luxury wedding and I am sure of a luxury marriage.

 FOUR Reasons (4) WHY PEOPLE DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO RED FLAGS

#1 Love is blind syndrome
People who claim that love is blind never pay attention to the red flag in their relationships. They feel love cures all without paying attention to correct one another's wrong.

#2 The nonchalant attitude
What you don't care for in relationship now, will definitely become a prayer point in marriage. You're seeing something that could damage your marriage yet you say you don't care.

#3 desperate to marry
People today are desperate to marry, some don't even care at the red flags in their partner's life. Some because of age, they will say even if I just marry her then I will divorce her, just to be seen that I have married before. Don't kill yourself when you already identify something you can't cope with.

#4 my partner will change
People always believe that their partners will change suddenly, when they can't even see someone who is ready to identify with their errors or read books that will change them. What they just do is marry the person, thinking such will change in marriage.

It's important you don't turn a blind eye to all this signs when they  begin to show and don't be afraid to make the right decision.

Tope Akinyele


9 comments:

  1. Thanks. God will help us all

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  2. God bless you for this... May our eyes be opened to see and our understanding be enlightened

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  3. Thanks for this
    More Grace sir

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  4. Very true, sir.

    Marriage doesn't change people. People change cause they want to, either positively or otherwise.

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  5. Keep up the good work...

    More grace sir

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