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Sunday, June 14, 2020

4 ESSENTIAL THINGS YOU MUST DO BEFORE YOU MARRY AS A LADY.



4 ESSENTIAL THINGS YOU MUST DO BEFORE YOU MARRY AS A LADY.
I know you're looking for the day that your wedding will happen and you have seen yourself in the wedding gown, dressed in a beautiful long wedding gown and having some classic heels and your hair sweetly made like a queen and waiting to walk the aisle with your prince charming.

As good as all these are you need to do some essential things that before you get married.

 Get a job or a business.

It's not enough to say you want to get married as a lady you need to get a job. You know, you shouldn't just allow your man to do all the spending and not play your part to support him. To tell you the truth, your husband may not love to do all the things you want especially some things he may count as being frivolous things which to you are very important for you to get for your wedding, so having a job of own might just help.

 Be responsible

Now either you're staying with your parents or not, take some responsibilities especially if you're staying with your parents. Don't display some immaturity before your parents this may make them see you as a child and feel they may need to "control" you in marriage because that's how it starts and this may become manipulative in your marriage.

Get your budget set

You need to have a budget as a lady, even if you want to spend big in your wedding, you should cost all that you'll spend and not go out of it. To tell the truth on this, most men don't know how to do this, as a lady your man may need your hand and every spending may need some explanation especially what is not clear to each of you.


 Read books  on marriage.

Read books  on marriage.


As a lady, in marriage, the responsibility of the home is in your hand. You're since as the General Controller of the home and you'll need to learn how to build your own wisely. Building your home wisely should matter to you as a woman and you will need to read a lot of books on marriage and sex. Yes I said sex because men love sex and are always ready for it in marriage. Read books on pregnancy and you get get some of my books on this page and I tell you your marriage will be beautiful.

Author: Tope Akinyele

9 comments:

  1. Nice one.
    What if your intended partner doesn't like to read books what should you do?

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    1. If your intended partner does not like to read books. There is a way to pass it to him or her without making such feel bad. First, let him see you read and do what you read by the time he keeps asking how did you know some things you know, you'll just say you read it from a book. The other partner who is unwilling to read books can become willing when such sees the effects of the book you read first in your own life.

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