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Sunday, August 23, 2020



In as much as this phrase is true, there is a side of extreme to it, as some may use it as an excuse to leave a relationship that has been for years with no issues for another "promising" relationship. Yes, don't marry anyone out of pity but don't wake love before time because the hurt it will bring will be a deep hurt that will leave some scars.

Imagine having sex with someone you have been in a relationship with for years and you guys have had several abortions and now you're saying you want to break up? After you have broken and scattered her life. You must finish what you have started because you can't use this phrase to judge the reason why you must break up.

Some ladies, the guy have been spending a lot on them for years and they said they're both in love and now you're saying you want to break up because he's not educated that a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage because you have found a guy in the school you get to and he seems to be from a rich home, you must be joking.

This is why you need to explore friendship before getting into a "committed" relationship. You'll always have issues as long as you're aborting the process that relationship requires that further leads into marriage. Never use this phrase on the table of mediocrity. Don't be fooled.

Tope Akinyele

The Love Transformers




While I will say that you should seek the physical attraction before getting into a relationship, I will also say that it can be deceptive.

Some times in relationship, what you want may be the reason why you will enter into a wrong relationship.

When the weakness of a man is known then his life is exposed and this is why as much as physical attraction is important, understand that it could be deceptive.

Most times in marriage, people don't get all they want in their partner, yet the contentment you find in their lives is rich than having all they want.

While I also understand that when you don't get what you want could be a means of distraction because you now see what you want yet you're hooked to what you don't want.

Please note that as much as having 100% of what you want in your partner, if contentment is lacking in your heart then, you are as good as someone who don't have all they wanted in their partner and are never satisfied.

I must conclude this way that physical attraction does not tell the inner configuration of a person, it just give the judgement of how the person looks and what you may be proud of publicly.

While the inner configuration may take some time to know because we seek the physical attractions that gets our eyes off the inner one. Which later, the inner configuration of such may completely make us hate the physical attraction that we once had.

Tope Akinyele

The Love Transformers


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